too close a friend, don't want to be a homewrecker...but

[Dimitrious]

Ok...a little back story is needed, I'm a masochist and have been looking for a master for the last couple of years now. for a wile one of my friends (we'll call her jamie) was my master (this was a non sexual relationship at first) she was involved in a relationship with one of my friends (we'll call her sarah) and they both got a boyfriend (we'll name him james) now james was jealous of me and jamie so out of respect we stopped. fast forward to a couple days ago and I'm hanging out with sarah and she starts to bite me. now a little biting here or there is ok but to the point my right arm looked purple from the black and blues was crazy. now that's not to say I didn't like it. on the contrary, I loved it. well james found out and looked angry at me and her. with luck she was on my side saying she would bite him but she would get yelled at by jamie if she left marks.

the last time she bit me he was there, the whole time I put my hands out to the side like a criminal showing him I wasn't doing anything.

now I'm not a looker so anytime I get attention I'm going to enjoy it

what am I to do fellow loyalty, should I find her something like leather or rawhide to chew on or continue to feed my masochist side?

[Jettneko]

You know, if you're just after some pain...you could go to the dentist or get something waxed or something... :wink: J/K

Why does your friend like to bite? Is she an Sadist? If not, then maybe you should get her something else to chew on. Even if she is, she shouldn't bite you so hard it leaves marks; a real friend doesn't hurt you...that much...it's not healthy. I have I friend I'm always smacking around but I never hit him so hard that it hurts (it's all play).

You aren't really homewrecking if they aren't married (technically), but maybe you shouldn't go doing things in front of him that make him upset. Do it behind his back instead LOL J/K

Actually, I just wanted to respond and I'm not sure my advice helps at all.

[Dimitrious]

yeah she is a sadist and thats the thing...I'm a masochist so I never minded the marks or the pain. things did escalate a little and we nearly did some ""stuff"" but I snapped out of my lust to pull her off me and told her I didn't want to do any I would regret in the morning. were still friends (hanging out with her today at the library) it's just that I don't know how far this rabbit hole will go...agggg any other ideas?

[Dimitrious]

anyone help me???!!?!

[StrawberryLUNA]

Im confused. are james, jamie, and sarah a threesome?
I totally understand wanting to show respect and not making moves on another guys girlfriend, but come on... any guy with two girlfriends kind of loses the right to be jealous over one of them giving a bit of attention to another person. especially when from the sounds of it you arent instigating any of this.
id say to talk it over with sarah. if she doesnt mind pissing off james then thats her choice, and its not like your hiding it and having a secret affair
I could be horribly misinterpreting this though.

but than again... if i ever found out my husband was letting another girl bite him, id murder them both. ...is james a violent or mentally unstable person by any chance?

[Dimitrious]

yeah threesomes never seem to be that stable. as for his mentality... at one time I was with jamie and when he found out the next day his buster blade was turned into a totem pole of stuffed animal heads.....so I said I wouldn't interfere. the actual relationship started weird, jamie and sarah were together and they added james. sarah was cool with me and jamie, mainly for the fact that I said if I ever go tin their way that I would back off. james on the other hand seems to be more trouble then he's worth sometimes. he truely cares but...idk. things seemed to have quieted down, sarah only gets bittie when we drink and not so much now but now I know I'm going to need a new sado......it's so hard to find good masters nowadays. thank you all who responded. I mainly needed someone to rant to and I feel glad that people got to help. I'll post later this month to keep everyone updated.