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| shizzle |
Posted: Mar 15 2005, 02:20 AM
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ok so im in my last days of high school and i thought that i wouldnt be bullied since im older..turns out that that aint the case at all.. theres this huuge fat kid named george who is so mean in my class (he stole my cell phone..money ..and more)he bullys me every day making my life a living hell..ive told on him about his theft but it ends up with me getting beat down again and again..can you help amy or anyone??
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| KahluaBlue |
Posted: Mar 17 2005, 11:50 PM
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It's a risk, but you're going to have to stand up to him - even if it scares you. It's really petty that people like him feeel the need to take their own insecurities out on others, but it often doesn't stop unless one faces the bully headon. Or file a police report for harrassment if the school doesn't intervene. All kids/teens should have a safe environment at school. Most likely he has a pitiful home life & has targeted you for some unknown reason(s) to vent his frustrations & insecurities. So you have to find a way to show him he chose the wrong target. Just walk up & punch him in the nose & state matter of factly you're not taking his crap any longer.
I was bullied by this girl & her friends for a yr. & a half starting when I was 13. They were a yr. to a few yrs. older than me. She was big - fat as well as big boned. But she also had a nasty reputation of being a "good fighter" & just all around rough. And she usually had 4 or 5 friends w/ her - who were as brash, crass & unruly. They'd follow me home in a car when I was walking home from school & cicle the blocks yelling things or just drive beside me slow & taunt me. A few times they acted like they were going to try to run over me. They stalked me at band camp during the summer, but by then I was a freshman & had quite a few friends who were juiniors & seniors & at band camp they bullied her in return & moved me in their cabin. lol That was fun! But after bandcamp w/ out my older body guards, lol, the bullying mounted once again. Finally, one day I just snapped, I was so sick of it. We were behind the gym auditorium & there were alot of people around either waiting on rides or just hanging out on a break from some sport on the field or in the gym. She came along & said something smartazz to me, I ignored her & she grabbed my shoulder to turn me around & that was it. I put my face very close to hers & pressed my middle finger against her big witch gnarly nose & went a little hysterical. I was yelling at her to just go ahead & show me what she had, that she had her audience now & let's go & toss in a few obscenities. Most immature, I know. But it worked. I mean, the whole time, my knees were shaking - not sure if it was fear or adrenaline because I was afraid of her, but I'd just had enough & w/ my temper exploding, I felt I could take her on at that moment & nothing would stop me. Luckily, she just glared at me, called me a name & walked back in the gym. lol And she was nice to me after that & even attempted being my "friend." But I had no interest in being her friend. After it was all over, I saw my Mom waiting in the car & she saw it all, so I was sort of worried I was going to get in trouble, but she was like "way to go, you should've punched her." And my Mom is so nonviolent & doesn't encourage bad behavior at all, but she was sick of it too. lol The point of all this is that if you face him - because one day you probably will have your breaking point - he'll probably back down too. Bullies are overall pussies when it comes down to it. Good luck - go kick some tail now! lol -------------------- |
| shizzle |
Posted: Mar 18 2005, 11:51 AM
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thanks for your grea advice but..
well i have got bad news and good news..good news is i wont be picked on anymore bad news is my bully just Died in an accident -------------------- ![]() |
| Amy |
Posted: Mar 18 2005, 04:17 PM
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OMG its true wat they say then wat goes around comes around -------------------- Moderators needed PM me if ur interested |
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| shizzle |
Posted: Mar 21 2005, 12:35 AM
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yea i just got back from his funeral..this may sound mean but im glad hes dead..thats wat pain and suffering can do to ya
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| Amy |
Posted: Mar 21 2005, 12:47 AM
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That is kinda mean shizzle you must really have hated that guy -------------------- Moderators needed PM me if ur interested |
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| shizzle |
Posted: Mar 21 2005, 02:16 AM
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yeah i tried to be nice to him even while he was betaing the living crap out of me..now my life is 20% better
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| Chained |
Posted: Mar 22 2005, 07:12 PM
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Take boxing lessons and beat him instead.
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| shizzle |
Posted: Mar 22 2005, 09:46 PM
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read above sum..hes dead now
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| KahluaBlue |
Posted: Mar 28 2005, 05:19 PM
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Hmmm...well, wow.
Why did you go to his funeral if you are glad he is dead? -------------------- |
| shizzle |
Posted: Mar 29 2005, 03:19 AM
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mom made me..she said to show "support" for his family..frankly i dont give a s***
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| KahluaBlue |
Posted: Apr 2 2005, 01:02 AM
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Well, it would probably be hard to give a sh** after what you went through.
I was only wndering. -------------------- |
| X-ZERO |
Posted: Apr 7 2005, 03:22 PM
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yeah i understand you when some1 is so F**king annoying you want him dead. offtopic:lol i am a guy are there other guys here???? |
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| Amy |
Posted: Apr 7 2005, 03:25 PM
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Alot of AAA's members are boys ! Back on topic please... -------------------- Moderators needed PM me if ur interested |
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| shizzle |
Posted: Apr 8 2005, 12:32 AM
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lol wtf was that man??
and thanks for your comments everyone -------------------- ![]() |
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